Do you consider texting, having phone conversations with the opposite sex and letting them think your interested is cheating, while your in a relationship? I do. It’s not being honest. ~ Angelique Mone
If you need to cheat to get what you want, then you deserve whatever you get in return. Love is not part of cheating ever. ~ Susan Quigley
I loved a man so much to the point of almost failing to love myself, but what did he do? He hurt me again and again, lied to me again again, wasn’t contented with me in spite the love I’ve shown him. I think it’s not my loss, it’s his. ~ Madi Duyang
If they will do it with you, they will do it too you. Cheating is always wrong. If you aren’t getting something in your relationship you need to talk to your spouse about it or end the relationship, not cheat. You get what you give. Cheaters are just selfish people who only care about themselves. ~ Andrea Wells
I can find myself in Mady’s comment. I forgave him over and over again,he lied to me over and over again, until I said enough is enough and decided to start loving myself. Single now but with a much better feeling. It is his lost not mine. Maybe he will never realize it, but that should not be my concern anymore, good thing is I did realize what I am worth.
It is not true that “once a cheater, always a cheater”. There are many reasons why someone cheats. For me, my spouse refused to spend time with me. Everything else was more important than I was. I felt like his hobbies & his work were his lovers because there was no room left for me. I felt alone & abandoned. He would say the words that he loved me but his actions told me something else. And he was verbally, emotionally & sexually abusive. I should have left. So, yes, I was desperately looking for something, someone to fill the void. I cheated. It was only after I was divorced & on my own that I found someone who truly loves me and we have been married for years now & I have not considered cheating on him. I will not betray this one who loves me in word & deed.