You can’t control what life throws at you, what you can control is the choices you make in response, in other words you can’t control the wind, but you can control the sails.
You have to make up your mind. 1- to take total responsibility (including anything you did, good or bad); 2- forgiveness; 3- take action to change and to improve the situation, then you do those steps (even if they’re baby steps) and keep going. Don’t give up! ~ Joyce ONeill